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PLANNING THE DESIGN
AROUND THE NATURAL LANDSCAPE

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AND THE LOCAL CLIMATE RESULTS
IN A LOW-MAINTENANCE GARDEN

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THAT SHOWS OFF A RANGE
OF VIBRANT COLORS

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AND STRONG FORMS
THROUGHOUT THE SEASONS.

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GOOD MORNING,
SWEETHEART.

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THAT LOOKS LIKE
AN OLD FAVORITE.

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VERY OLD.

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I THOUGHT HE'D LIKE IT.

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THAT THE SMELL
WOULD BE FAMILIAR.

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MAYBE.

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GOOD IDEA.

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NO.

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HE WOULDN'T EAT BREAKFAST,
EITHER.

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HE HAD A PRETTY TOUGH NIGHT.

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WHAT HAPPENED?

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WE GOT HIM UP
TO TOILET,

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THEN COULDN'T GET HIM
BACK DOWN.

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SO WHAT DID YOU DO?

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WE PUT ON HIS MUSIC
LIKE YOU SAID.

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THAT GOT HIM CALM ENOUGH
TO SLEEP A LITTLE.

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IT'S A BIG ADJUSTMENT
MOVING HERE.

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HE'LL SETTLE IN.

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YOU'RE OKAY, HONEY.

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YOU'RE OKAY.

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OH, LOOK!

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THE KIDS ARE HERE.

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<i>(ANNIE)</i>
<i>HI, DAD.</i>

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DOES HE EVEN KNOW
WHO WE ARE?

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SOMETIMES HE DOES,
SOMETIMES HE DOESN'T.

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IT'S HARD TO TELL.

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WHAT DO WE DO?

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YOU ACT NORMAL.

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YOU TALK TO HIM.

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TELL HIM ABOUT
YOURSELF, YOUR KIDS.

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TOUCH HIM OR READ TO HIM.

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ANYTHING YOU LIKE.

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HE'S STILL DAD.

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HE NEEDS TO KNOW WE'RE HERE.

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HEY, DAD.

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I LIKE YOUR NEW DIGS.

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I'LL BE BACK LATER.

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HOW WERE YOUR FIRST
COUPLE OF NIGHTS?

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GOSH, JAKE WAS REALLY SORRY
YOU'VE MISSED HIS WEDDING.

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I BROUGHT SOME PHOTOGRAPHS.

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YOU KNOW, BEFORE YOU KNOW IT,
I'LL BE A GRANDFATHER.

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THAT'LL MAKE YOU
A GREAT-GRANDFATHER.

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CAN YOU BELIEVE IT?

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TIME FLIES.

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SEEMS LIKE JUST LAST WEEK
JAKE WAS A BABY.

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MARIA HAS ENOUGH CREDITS
TO GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL EARLY,

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SO SHE SAYS SHE'S SLUMMING IT
FOR THE REST OF THE YEAR.

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WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?

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KIDS.

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YEAH, KIDS.

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MAN, WE SOUND OLD.

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EXCUSE ME.

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I WANT TO MAKE SURE
THAT HAROLD'S DOCTOR

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GOT A COPY OF HIS
ADVANCE HEALTH CARE DIRECTIVE.

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I'M SURE SHE DID,
BUT I'LL DOUBLE CHECK.

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WELL, I DON'T WANT HIM
TO HAVE ANY TREATMENTS

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HE DOESN'T WANT
OR HE DOESN'T NEED.

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<i>THINGS CAN HAPPEN WHEN A PERSON</i>
<i>CAN'T SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES.</i>

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WE TAKE EVERY PRECAUTION.

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OUR STAFF DOCTOR IS VERY
FAMILIAR WITH DEMENTIA.

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WELL, DID SHE CHECK IN
WITH HAROLD'S REGULAR DOCTOR,

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GET ALL HIS RECORDS
AND PRESCRIPTIONS?

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YOU BROUGHT ALL THAT
IN YOURSELF.

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BUT SHE CAN CALL
IF YOU'D LIKE.

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OH, THAT'S RIGHT.

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<i>OKAY.</i>

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IS EVERYTHING ALRIGHT,
MRS. HAMILTON?

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WELL, TO TELL YOU
THE TRUTH, NO.

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I'M HAVING A REAL
HARD TIME WITH THIS.

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I DIDN'T WANT HIM HERE.

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AND NOW I FEEL PRETTY USELESS.

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YOUR HUSBAND NEEDS YOU
MORE THAN EVER.

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NO ONE CAN CARE FOR HIM
LIKE YOU CAN.

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YOU HAVE DONE AN AMAZING JOB,
ANYONE CAN SEE THAT.

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REALLY?

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REALLY.

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IT'S POSSIBLE THAT YOU MAY BE
FEEING SOME DEPRESSION.

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IT'S PRETTY COMMON WHEN A LOVED
ONE ENTERS A NURSING HOME.

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IS THAT WHAT IT IS?

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BECAUSE I SURE
DON'T FEEL RIGHT.

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MAYBE I SHOULD FIND
A DOCTOR OF MY OWN.

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IT MIGHT HELP.

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HE ALWAYS LOVED HIS
APPLE SAUCE.

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HAVING SOMETHING TO DO WITH
HIM REALLY TAKES THE EDGE OFF.

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YEAH, I WAS AFRAID WE WERE
GOING TO SIT AROUND

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IN AN AWKWARD HOSPITAL SILENCE.

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WELL, MOM, I'VE GOT A WORK CALL
I HAVE TO MAKE.

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ERIC, I'M SO GLAD
YOU CAME.

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I KNOW IT MEANS
A LOT TO HIM.

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SEE YOU TOMORROW, DAD.

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ANNIE, READY?

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LOVE YOU GUYS.

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WE DID A GOOD JOB
WITH THOSE TWO.

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I LOVE YOU, HAROLD.

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I ALWAYS WILL.

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YOU ARE THE MOST
IMPORTANT PART

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OF YOUR LOVED ONE'S CARE
IN A NURSING HOME.

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DAILY VISITS REMIND HIM
THAT HE IS LOVED AND NOT ALONE.

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INTERACTIONS LIKE TALKING,
TOUCHING, GROOMING,

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SINGING, AND READING CAN BE
A GREAT COMFORT

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AND COUNTERACT THE ANXIETY,
FEAR, AND LONELINESS

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HE MIGHT BE FEELING.

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IT'S ALSO IMPORTANT THAT YOU
STAY INVOLVED IN HIS CARE.

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ASK QUESTIONS.

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BE SURE HIS WISHES
ARE BEING CARRIED OUT.

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GET TO KNOW THE STAFF.

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MAKE THEM FAMILIAR
WITH YOUR LOVED ONE.

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AND REMEMBER TO THANK THEM
FOR THEIR HARD WORK.

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FOR MORE INFORMATION
ABOUT CARING

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FOR YOUR LOVED ONE
IN A NURSING HOME,

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TALK TO YOUR
HEALTHCARE PROFESSIONAL.